Your Life Has Been Preparing You

You weren’t just “getting through it.”

You were becoming.

Every zigzag, heartbreak, breakthrough, and pivot — it wasn’t random.
It was your PhD in purpose-driven leadership.

And in this moment — the moment where you might feel uncertain, unseen, or “not ready” —

I want to remind you:

You are not behind.

You’ve been preparing for this all along.

🌟 Here’s the thing:

Most of us aren’t taught to trust our life experience as credible.

We’re taught to downplay it.
To hide it.
To compartmentalize it.

But that breakup?
That job you walked away from?
That leap of faith that didn’t go as planned?

Those moments are more than memories — they are your curriculum.

Your life has uniquely prepared you to support the women who are already out there, searching for someone who gets it.

Because they don’t want someone who knows it all.
They want someone who’s been there.

🎥 Watch This Week’s Video:

This 30-second message from Sage will remind you why your life already qualifies you to lead.

✨ Your Story Is the Strategy

“You have a unique set of life experiences that’s going to set you apart in your business when you lean into that. Your life has been like a PhD program, preparing you to support the clients who are already out there looking for you. There’s only one you. Don’t forget that.”
—Sage Lavine

The online space is full of copycats, templates, and “shoulds.”
But what sets you apart isn’t your niche.

It’s your lived experience.
It’s your truth.
It’s your willingness to show up, share it, and serve from your story.

🌿 5 Ways to Turn Your Life Into Your Message

1. Reflect on your defining moments.
   The messy ones. The magical ones. The moments that cracked you open or called you forward.
   These aren’t detours — they’re divine design.
2. Harvest your credibility.
   Yes, your training and certifications matter. But so do your real-life wins, embodied wisdom, and the fact that you kept going.
3. Harvest your vulnerability.
   Where have you been cracked open?
   That’s where your future clients will trust you the most. That’s where they’ll feel seen.
4. Identify the woman you’re here to serve.
   She’s often a past version of you. What does she need to hear? What would you say to her, knowing what you now know?
5. Let your story shape your brand, your offers, and your voice.
   Your message isn’t something you have to create from scratch.
   It’s already inside you — born from the life you’ve lived.

Sister, the most magnetic version of your business will come from alignment — not effort.

You don’t need to perform.
You don’t need to push.
You just need to trust what you’ve already lived through… and speak from there.

Because your ideal clients?
They’re not waiting for someone “perfect.”

They’re waiting for you.

So this week, here’s your invitation:
Let your life be the curriculum.
Let your message be the ripple.
Let your business be the legacy.

With love,
Sage 💖