Asking for the Sale is Sacred

Happy Monday, beauty!

If you’ve ever dreaded a sales conversation or felt resistance to talking with potential clients about money…

It’s time for a shift.

Today I’m teaching you why asking for the sale is SACRED, so you can…

  • Hear more “YES!” from your ideal clients
  • Shift from resistance to excitement in your sales conversations
  • Feel confident asking for the sale & enrolling new clients

Here are 3 ways to embrace your sales conversations with confidence.

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#1. Practice Presence

When you want to feel present in your life and business, you may practice presence exercises like…

  • Breathwork
  • Meditation
  • Yoga

Asking for the sale is another way to feel fully present and focused in your business. Your enrollment conversations are a gift because they require your full attention and presence in the moment. That’s what makes it a sacred part of your process.

When you’re present in the conversation, you’re open to attracting more “yes” and truly connecting with your ideal clients. Your energetic availability and your presence are your most important assets when you’re enrolling new clients.

If you feel a little intimidated because money is part of the conversation, here’s a shift to consider: 

The enrollment process isn’t sacred in spite of the fact that money is on the table. It’s sacred because of the fact that money is involved. 

Remember, your clients aren’t investing in you. They’re investing in the transformation you are creating in their lives – and that’s really exciting. 

 #2. Consider Commitment

During your enrollment conversation, it’s important to understand your potential client’s level of commitment…

…but you don’t want to come across as robotic or unnatural by asking the question, “How committed are you on a scale of 1 to 10?”

That’s why it’s a good idea to ask questions about their greatest desires and highest intentions for their life. Tune into their juiciest “why” and the best version of themselves they envision in their future. 

Then, ask questions that measure their commitment based on their words, not yours. 

Ask if they are level 10 committed to putting time, energy, and resources into really bringing life to their vision and desires. 

This approach creates a sacred dance that transforms…

“Will you hire me?” 


“Are we both committed to creating this incredible transformation in your life?”

When it’s a mutual “yes,” you have the honor of holding them accountable and giving them the steps they need to achieve this desired transformation. 

#3. Appreciate the Dance

Your enrollment conversation is no less sacred than going on a first date!

You’re answering two questions:

“Am I the right fit for this potential client?”

“Is this potential client the right fit for me?”

The goal is for you and your potential client to stand together as agents of change for the unique transformation you can provide in their lives. 

Money is a beautiful part of that exchange and it’s symbolic of the mutual decision you’re making to create change together. 

Money is the stake in the ground for you to change lives…because when people pay, they pay attention.

When you embrace the sacredness of sales, you can have FUN enrolling new clients and dancing in sales conversations. 

So I’m inviting you to spend some time this week…

  • Making your message as clear as possible
  • Getting curious about your potential clients’ commitment
  • Tuning into your greater desire to change lives and LOVE serving clients.

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Your clients are waiting for you. They aren’t just waiting for someone like you. They are actually waiting for YOU. 

Let’s do this thing…together.


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[…] unique gift can change your ideal clients’ lives in a big way. The sale & exchange of money represents the sacred commitment you’re both making to creating the transformation […]

9 months ago

I love the concept that the sale is sacred! Great “reframe.” Thanks!

Veronica Life
9 months ago

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Caroline Thompson
Caroline Thompson
9 months ago

Such a refreshing way to look at sales!

Nicole Kirksey
9 months ago

I definitely want to hear a resounding ‘YES!’ from my ideal clients! Sage mentioned that we should embrace it and not resist it, and I’m ready. Yes, I would love it if people just randomly signed up to work with me, but that’s completely unrealistic. It’s also not what I want–I only want my ideal clients, and I have to speak with them to know if the service I offer is a fit for them, and if their goals and commitment level are a fit for me. I found it beneficial to practice with my Women Rocking Business sisters. In fact, I won a gamified challenge and got to call myself an “enrollment queen” for a while just for practicing! I am grateful for the opportunity to get more comfortable with connecting with women. Now, as I’m pivoting my focus, I will need to practice even more to strengthen my leadership in that sacred space.  

Jill Stein
Jill Stein
9 months ago
Reply to  Nicole Kirksey

I totally agree. Asking for the sale can be so edgy!!!

Last edited 9 months ago by Jill Stein
Jill Stein
Jill Stein
9 months ago

This was awesome. A committed potential client is gold!

9 months ago

Thank you for demystifying asking for the sale– it’s something I know a lot of us struggle with, but it doesn’t have to be big and scary! And with what we have to offer, our perfect clients WILL BUY because we have something they need!

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